Inspired by the fact that I work remotely, I am an introvert, and the knowledge that too much isolation is not a good thing, I created three goals for 2023 with the intention to do cool things and meet new people. The THREE goals:
1. Have 12 “out of my comfort zone” experiences
2. Do 52 hikes
3. Connect with 52 new people
12 “OUT OF MY COMFORT ZONE” EXPERIENCES
Think karaoke! A cold plunge! It’s something I’ve never done before because of fear or feeling uncomfortable.
52 HIKES
In full transparency, hiking is part of my life today. The intent of this goal is to discover new trails. Can I repeat a specific hike? Yes! For example, if the trail was washed out and I went back for a redo or I wanted to experience that trail at sunrise and another time at sunset. Minimum hike time of 60 minutes.
52 NEW PEOPLE CONNECTIONS
Of these three goals, this is the one that scares me the most. I am not shy to talk with strangers, but this goal is around making a connection with each person. This means knowing their name and connecting with them enough that they will agree to a photo together that I can post on my Instagram page @natalie_vanderpump.
Overarching these goals is a focus on the little moments. To be present with the hundreds of choices and decision points before me each day. To pause, for at least a micro-second, and ask if I am making an easy choice or doing what’s right - doing what’s best for my higher Self.